There are many programs that may be able to provide a caregiver in your home.
Caregivers can assist with personal care (bathing, eating, dressing) and sometimes with household care (shopping, cooking, laundry).
Programs vary quite a bit by state. The services listed on this page are for the US. If you are in another country, please take a look here.
The Veteran’s Administration offers self-directed home care. If you are homebound, you can get extra money for being homebound. I don’t know a lot about these programs. If you are in this program, or if you try applying, please write me. I would love to know more.
Long Term Care / Waiver Programs
If you need assistance with personal care (eating, bathing, dressing, etc), you may qualify for a homecare waiver program that will give you a caregiver. In many programs, these caregivers can also assist with other activities (shopping, cooking, cleaning, doctor’s appointments). Hours vary. It is often 20-30 hours per week. To qualify for this program, you will need to answer some very specific Personal Care Questions
Waiver Programs (Try Again!)
Waiver programs are run by Medicaid. Many people never apply because they think they won’t qualify for Medicaid financially or because someone in their local Social Services office told them something discouraging or confusing. Or because someone (wrongly) told them they could not apply. Please persist. The financial eligibility for this program is completely different than for other forms of Medicaid. Always apply on paper and get an answer in writing. Never accept “no” for an answer over the phone. If you continue to get turned down, research the regulations in your state, look into establishing a trust, or consult with a lawyer who specializes in Medicaid estate planning. There are many ways to qualify for this type of Medicaid program.
Funding for the Person who Cares for You Now
In the waiver programs listed above, you may select your own caregiver. You can hire a friend, neighbor, family member, or anyone you choose. In most states, you cannot hire a spouse, but can hire other family members. The salary is paid by the state.
Finding a Great Caregiver
Waiver programs will allow you the options to choose the caregiver of your choice and the state will pay the salary. If you are not in a waiver program, you can, of course, just hire and pay your own caregiver yourself. If you do not already have someone in mind, here are some tips for finding wonderful caregivers.
Household Help Programs
If you need help in your house (cleaning, cooking) but do not need personal care (bathing, eating, dressing, toilet), in some areas there are programs that provide this service. They will usually send someone from an agency to your home a few hours per week. This program is not available in most states. Try calling your local Adult Services Department or social services agency. Also, try calling your state agency on aging (even if you are young, still call here).
Mental Health Home Support (Medicaid)
If you have a psychiatric condition, in some areas, you may be able to get in a program that provides mental health support in your home. This person comes to your home and offers you support with medication management, household tasks and coping with symptoms. They can also accompany you to your doctors or other life activities. In some states, they may be able to assist you with shopping, cooking or cleaning. How to find this service: This service is called different things in different states and may not be available in all areas. Try contacting behavioral health agencies in your area and asking how you can get mental health support in your home. You can also try contacting your state Medicaid office to see if they can point you in the right direction.
Hiring a Caregiver or Offering Housing
Some people hire caregivers, or offer a free place to live in exchange for help in their homes. Here are a few good websites for finding caregivers, and finding information on legal and logistical questions: Care.com and Caring.com
Mental Health Waivers
These programs offer the same services described above, and may have other kinds of support as well. These programs are run by Medicaid, but don’t let that scare you off. Even if you are not eligible for regular Medicaid, you may still be eligible for waiver programs. Waivers for mental illness are now available in Connecticut, California, Colorado, Ohio, and elsewhere. You can also look up the names of different waiver programs. Make sure to ask about or research exactly what kind of mental health background and treatment you need to qualify.
Medicare may provide assistance in your home from a part-time nurse, personal aide, and (if needed) physical therapist. The personal aide may be able to assist you with caring for yourself and your home. To qualify, you must be have these two things: One: You must be homebound (leaving the house is difficult and infrequent). Two: You must have a medical need for a licensed nurse (for example, if you need injections or you have a wound that needs dressing). Learn more here and find an agency here.
Move to California
From what I can tell, California seems to have the best caregiver programs that provide the most services to the widest range of people. Here’s a good facebook group for people in caregiver programs in California.
Applying for Disability
You do not need to be on disability to qualify for most home care programs. Just ask Azalea: How Azalea Got Turned Down for Disability but Approved for a Caregiver. If you are in a home care program, the documents from this program can be a great help to your disability application. Please save copies of anything your doctor signs or fills out. Also, ask your caseworker or contact person for copies of your file and copies of any assessments that were done when you joined the program. Submit these documents to Social Security. It can help a lot.
Area Agency on Aging
Your local Area Agency on Aging can be an excellent resource for caregiver programs, no matter what age you are. You can call them ask them for information on caregiver programs in your area, and you can often apply directly through them.
ADAPT is a national grassroots community group that organizes disability rights activists. They also have several Facebook groups. Many ADAPT members are in medicaid waiver and caregiver programs and they work to protect and expand these programs.
Nursing Homes and Assisted Living
If you are unable to care for yourself and do not have funds, Medicaid will pay for a nursing home. In some states, Medicaid will also pay for assisted living programs. You do not need to be on Medicaid now to qualify. Some private nursing homes dedicate a certain number of beds for Medicaid patients. Private facilities may have higher quality of life.
If you are already in a nursing home and want to be out of it, please look into the home care medicaid waiver programs listed above. There may be programs available to help you transition back into the community and get care in your home. You can learn more about keeping people out of institutions from the advocacy group ADAPT.
Some states have programs that provide home services for children with disabilities.